JoyClub Review: A Ticket To Germany’s Inner Swinging Circle

Looking for a one-stop site to make all your German hook-up fantasies come true?

JoyClub is a wildly popular online hub for swingers, fetish fans, and other adventurous kinks in Germany. The user base has exploded to over 6 million members, including singles and couples, making it the definitive social network for NSFW events in Germany.

In this JoyClub review, we take a closer look at why the site has seen such phenomenal growth – and we check out the defining features, including forums, groups, event and club listings plus sex chat, live streams, amateur content and more!

Germany’s Largest Online Adult Community

The JoyClub website, as you’ll find it today, was launched in 2005 but was originally set up in 1999 as a simple online forum.

Back then, it was a humble bulletin board for the kink-curious crowd. A place where German swingers and fetish lovers could swap tips without the neighbours finding out. No apps, no swiping, no emoji-laced sexts. Just raw, unfiltered adult chatter on dial-up internet with a distinctly Geocities feel!

Here’s how it looked back then…

The transformation kicked off in 2005, when JoyClub was officially relaunched as a proper adult social network by F&P GmbH (short for “Fun & Pleasure”). Based in Leipzig, the company doubled down on the booming interest in alternative lifestyles, swinging, BDSM, and sexual self-expression.

Fast-forward two decades and the JoyClub empire has grown into a 6-million-strong juggernaut – making it the largest sex-positive community in the DACH region (Germany, Austria, Switzerland). It’s no longer just an online message board. It’s a fully-fledged erotic ecosystem. You can chat, stream, plan a foursome, post your latex party RSVP, and flirt with verified couples… and you never have to leave JoyClub once.

Perhaps more importantly, the platform has been embraced by swinger clubs throughout the region as the premier destination to organise events. This has led to some considerable network effects.

The bigger it got, the more useful it became.

The site has carved out a niche by doing two things very well: protecting privacy and making sex-positive events discoverable.

Many swinger clubs across Germany list their events exclusively on JoyClub.

So if you want to find them, you have to be there.

Think of it like a cross between Adult Friend Finder and Facebook; a place for social networking and casual dating… but a whole lot sexier (and hopefully without your close relations!).

There are also plenty of other Europeans registered on JOYClub, including Swiss, Austrian and French nationals. In fact, JoyClub has such an international reach that there are also around 10,000 Americans registered as members.

According to the latest data released by the parent company F&P GmbH, the average age of members of JOYClub is 34 with a split of:

• 39% Single Men
• 30% Single Women
• 31% Couples

However, from our experience on the site, if you’re outside of Germany, Austria, or Switzerland, the user base drops significantly.

This is mainly an issue where most of the user-generated content and discussions are in German, so if you don’t speak German… well, uhh, you might find your options severely limited!

Adult Social Networking with JoyClub

The main point of using a site like JOYClub is to connect with like-minded people, and the platform allows you to build a network of friends in the same way as you can on sites like Facebook.

You can add people as friends, send private messages, follow profiles you like, and post updates or blog-style entries on your profile wall. There’s a genuine social layer to JoyClub that makes it feel more like a kinky online community than a dating site.

But the real goldmine lies in the groups and forums.

There are thousands of themed discussion groups you can join – from “BDSM beginners” to “Berlin Party People” to very niche fetish clubs (yes, there’s a group for people who like latex and cheese… probably).

Some are based around kinks, others are regional, and some are tied to specific venues or events. These groups help you find your tribe and keep up with what’s happening both online and off.

The forums, meanwhile, function like a public chatroom crossed with an advice column.

People post everything from relationship dilemmas to party reviews to photos of their partners (with permission!). It’s a place to ask questions (“How do you ask for a threesome without being a weirdo?”), show off your lingerie haul, or just shoot the breeze with sex-positive folk. The threads are a mix of flirty, education and in some cases… unhinged.

But that’s all part of the fun.

Meetups, Parties & Swinger Club Listings

Now, if you’re thinking “this sounds cool, but I want to get off the internet and into someone’s pants” – well, good news. That’s where JoyClub really shines.

And why the Germans bloody love it.

The events section is packed with real-life parties, workshops, and get-togethers.

You’ll find everything from formal swinger parties in posh venues to chilled-out BBQs hosted by lifestyle couples. Each event listing shows exactly who’s going (with profile pics), what to expect, and whether newbies are welcome. Keep in mind that many events are run by verified JoyClub partner venues, which is a way of saying that they’ve been tried and tested by many Lifestylers before you.

Want to hit up a themed BDSM night in Hamburg? Or a sauna swinger party in Cologne? You’ll find it on the JoyClub calendar.

You can use the site to RSVP, chat to attendees in advance, and maybe line up a cheeky meet beforehand. Some clubs even offer discounted entry if you flash your JoyClub Premium badge at the door.

There’s also a “Dates” feature where you can post a personal ad if you’re looking for something specific.

For example: “Couple, 40s, seeks fun bi-femme for Berlin hotel night – message us if you like bubbles, butt plugs, and late-night kebabs.”

OK, it’s not quite as candid as that, but you get the idea!

Verified Profiles & Privacy Controls

Let’s be honest… adult sites can attract some real weirdos. We know this first-hand at Euro Sex Scene (Welcome!). The difference is… we’re just a collection of articles and blogs.

JoyClub knows this, too, and does a better job than most at keeping things secure.

Users can go through a verification process that includes photo checks or ID submission (optional, but rewarded with a shiny green tick). Verified users are faaaar more likely to get responses and show up in search results. It also gives you peace of mind that you’re not chatting to a stolen stock photo from Belarus.

Despite this, Catfishing is still a problem.

There’s no getting around the fact that not everybody is who they say they are… especially on a site with 6 million members. You do need to keep your wits about you.

Thankfully, the privacy settings are granular and pretty effective.

You can hide or blur explicit content, control who sees your galleries, and browse in “ghost mode” if you don’t want your profile visits showing up. The messaging aspect is limited for free users – which, while annoying at first, helps weed out spammy DMs and mass copy pasta.

JoyClub makes it slightly harder to be a creep, and that’s a very good thing… particularly in a community that thrives with maximum discretion.

Explore Hookups in Germany and Beyond

Whilst JOYClub covers swinging and sexy hookups right across Germany itself, the site also lists the same kind of clubs and services in a few other European countries.

This includes Austria, Belgium, Switzerland and the Czech Republic.

As we said, it’s mainly in the German language (used widely in Austria and Switzerland in particular).

Never Miss a Sexy Event

One of the features of JOYClub that makes it so popular with members is the detailed listings they provide for all swinging events being run around Germany. And trust us, there’s a crap load of swinging events in Germany!

Think of the site like your online planner and you can ensure that all your weekends are full of the hottest engagements.

Pretty much all the swinging clubs in Germany post updates about their events, so you’re sure to find something in your area.

Premium Porn with JOYClub

JOYClub isn’t just about meeting people. It’s also quietly become a premium destination for user-submitted smut and high-quality porn. Of course, you’ve got the naughty galleries you’ll stumble across in user profiles and groups, but there’s a full premium porn library available for paying members.

This is a common quirk that we’ve noticed with German adult communities.

Both MyDirtyHobby and Visit-X follow the same formula of slapping networking and porn consumption under the same hood – although both of those platforms are more aligned with camming than swinging.

Whatever the case, JoyClub has some decent adult content. It’s not some dodgy tube site rip-off.

We’re talking actual studio scenes from well-known names like Marc Dorcel, Erika Lust, and a few indie Euro porn houses you’ve probably never heard of (but might want to after one viewing). If your tastes lean more artsy than raunchy, you’ll appreciate the curated selection.

This content is fully included with the Premium Light and Full Premium tiers, which makes the upgrade suddenly feel like a pretty good value (more on that below).

Granted, we can’t imagine too many people join JoyClub just for the porn. There are plenty of German adult sites that do this much better.

What JoyClub Doesn’t Do So Well

Ok, so no platform is perfect… and while JoyClub’s community-driven model has a lot going for it, there are a few trade-offs you should know:

• It’s still very German. Yes, there’s an English-language version. And yes, you can use it from outside Germany. But if you’re not fluent in German, you’ll be missing out on most of the fun. The forums, groups, event listings… nearly all of it defaults to Deutsch. And while Google Translate is your friend, nothing kills the mood like trying to decipher “dogginggruppe gesucht mit aktivem Paarraum” on a party listing.
• Single men will struggle. This isn’t unique to JoyClub, but it’s worth stating: the gender ratio skews male-heavy, and single guys get a lot less attention than couples or women. Unless you’re verified, respectful, and maybe a bit charming, you’ll be playing on hard mode. The ones who do well put the effort in, engage in the community, and don’t send 5-paragraph essays about their stamina to anybody who will listen.
• The UI is… fine? Let’s just say: nobody’s logging in for the slick design. It’s functional, and after a few hours you’ll get the hang of it. But compared to flashier modern apps, JoyClub still feels a bit like a 2010s forum that got a facelift.
• International users don’t really fit in. If you’re based in the UK or US, your local feed might be emptier than a Berlin club at 7pm. There are users outside of Germany, sure – but not enough to build a reliable social circle unless you’re in Central Europe. The core community is very active, but mostly regional. You’ll find more success if you’re open to travel or already planning that trip to Bavaria.

What Does JoyClub Cost?

You can register as a user on JOYClub for free, which gives you a basic membership. This means you can read and write in the forums, send and receive ClubMails and place ads for dates.

You can also rate other members, participate in chat, search for other users and post videos/photos to your profile.

For a free service, you can access many features, and you can get a lot out of JOYClub without paying for it.

However, if you really want to get the best experience from this service then you should consider upgrading to a premium subscription.

Here are the different tiers:

Free Membership

• Create a profile (as single, couple, or group)
• Browse forums, events, and public groups
• View teaser versions of erotic photos and galleries
• See who’s attending events
• Post your own personal ads in the “Dates” section
• Respond to one message per person (but you can’t initiate unless you’re Premium)

Free mode is a decent toe-dip. You’ll get a feel for the platform and can lurk in the forums or snoop on party listings. But if you’re hoping to do anything beyond ghost-lurking… it won’t get you very far.

Plus Membership

Free for authenticated women, couples, non-binaries and companies (after verification)

• Unlimited contact with all members
• Targeted contact through profile voting
• Post and find date listings
• View private photo albums and homepages

This is basically the “extended free membership” that is designed to maximise supply of the members JoyClub likes, since it’s females and couples that keep the platform growing.

You have to go through a verification process to activate this membership tier.

Premium Light

€8–12/month FOR MEN depending on subscription length

• All the free perks, plus:
• Full access to member photo galleries and erotic content
• Watch premium porn from partner studios
• View adult live streams and member-submitted videos
• See who’s liked or visited your profile

Ideal if you’re mainly here to perv respectfully. It unlocks all the juicy bits, but limits messaging. In other words: you can look, but you better hope someone messages you first.

Premium Full

€11–15/month depending on subscription length

• Everything in Premium Light
• Unlimited messaging and chat initiation
• Video chat and incognito browsing
• Access to additional filters and advanced search
• Top placement in search results
• Discounts at participating clubs and events

This is the proper “get laid” tier. It’s what serious swingers, fetishists, and clubgoers use. If you plan to actually meet people or attend events regularly, this is the one you want.

JoyClub also offers an optional Coin system… a virtual currency used to tip streamers, boost personal ads, or rent specific porn content. You don’t need Coins to function, but the microtransactions do add a little VIP flair if you’re the generous type or want to bump your profile visibility.

And yes, you can cancel your premium anytime. There are no shady lock-ins. A fair move in a niche filled with predatory billing models.

JoyClub vs SDC vs FetLife: Who’s It For?

If you’re swinging through the adult lifestyle scene, you’ve probably heard of other platforms like SDC (Swingers Date Club) and FetLife.

So how does JoyClub compare?

We typically recommend SDC as our favourite destination for swingers, but that’s with the caveat that if you are based in Germany, the scale tips heavily in favour of JoyClub.

FetLife is much more… alternative.

Great for kinks, less useful for swingers.

Is JoyClub Worth It?

JOYClub is a fantastic tool for swinging in Germany (and occasional casual dating), particularly if you actually speak German… but it could do with a new lick of paint.

If you live in Germany… or spend a lot of time there… absolutely yes; it is worth joining.

For our money, it’s the best online home for swingers, lifestyle couples, fetish fans and curious cats who want to connect with like-minded adults in the DACH region.

The blend of adult content, forums, group chats and real-life event organisation gives it a unique flavour that no other site quite replicates.

Just be prepared for:

• Some clunky UX
• A whole lotta German
• And the occasional encounter with weird random dudes in leather shorts

That aside, it’s perfect for setting up your next gangbang in Düsseldorf. 😂

Get in, get verified, and go wild.

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