Interested in what the UK swinger scene is like?
The UK has a reputation in Europe for having one of the largest population of swingers across the whole of the continent. Conservative estimates suggest that there are around a million swingers in Britain. The popular social networking swinger site, Fab Swingers, attracts over 25 million hits each month with 90% being from the UK. Adult Friend Finder is also jam-packed with UK swingers looking to hook up.
So, what kind of communities, clubs and events are being run in the UK to cater for this huge demand and where are all these swingers meeting? In this guide, we take a look at the most popular clubs around the UK, from London swingers, Cornwall to Scotland, East Anglia to Wales, providing you with a brief overview of all of the venues and events worth visiting
- 1 Swingers in Britain: A Brief History
- 2 Swingers Clubs Across the UK
- 2.1 Swinging in London
- 2.2 Swinging in Birmingham and the West Midlands
- 2.3 Swinging in Central England
- 2.4 Swinging in East Anglia
- 2.5 Swinging in the East Midlands
- 2.6 Swinging in the North East
- 2.7 Swinging in the North West
- 2.8 Swinging in South East England
- 2.9 Swinging in South West England
- 2.10 Swinging in Wales
- 2.11 Swinging in Scotland
- 2.12 Useful Contacts: National Swingers
Swingers in Britain: A Brief History
Though wife-swapping probably dates back as far as marriage itself, the practice known as swinging took off in the UK in a big way during the middle of the last century. The sixties were swinging in more ways than one as sexual liberation took hold, not just in the cities but in the suburbs too. The increased availability of contraception was another factor, allowing women the opportunity to be more promiscuous without the threat of falling pregnant.
Known as following ‘the lifestyle’, the popularity of wife-swapping grew during the1970s when plenty of urban myths started to circulate about what went on at parties. Some may have started with a grain of truth but have largely become disproportionate stereotypes of a swinging party. The media, in particular, were quite keen to share stories of parties where couples would throw their housekeys into a bowl and women would choose a set at random, indicating their next partner. And, who in Britain doesn’t know about the ‘secret’ symbol of a swinging couple by way of their placement of pampas grass at the front door?
The key to living an alternative lifestyle, for most people, is discretion and much of what goes on behind closed doors at these parties is kept that way. Yet over the last few decades more and more clubs have opened their doors wider and now accept guests to their events without strict membership procedures. Social media and widespread advertising on swinging sites have let the general public see (and understand) more about the lifestyle.
Swingers Clubs Across the UK
There’s not a city in the UK where you can’t find swinging clubs and, in this guide, we explore the length and breadth of the country to bring you the best choices from every region.
Swinging in London
The capital has a huge selection of swinging clubs, parties, groups and events, each catering for different sections of the community. Some are known for being very exclusive and may have selection criteria for its London swingers.
You will need to check the details of the website for more information about membership as well as checking on updated events calendars.
Running London’s most extreme fetish parties, Bizarre Events regularly holds evenings for kinks of all kinds and are well attended by all kinds of people including gay, bi, TV/TS and couples.
It’s worth checking in advance what kind of parties are being held as the piss fetish sex parties might not be for everyone but, as they say in the fet community, YKINMKBYKIOK (your kink is not my kink but your kink is ok).
Fire, South Lambeth Road, London,SW8 1RT.
A ‘playground for the dominant woman and those who worship her’, Club Pedestal’s events are currently being held at the Fire nightclub in Vauxhall but this is subject to change. Fire has a good layout and lends itself to zoning for some atmospheric play areas.
There is usually one event each month and the club has a reputation for hosting one of the most popular female dominance parties in the UK (according to the weekly women’s magazine, Grazia).
188 Hackney Rd, London E2 7QL
Club Rub is known as ‘London’s Friendliest Club’ and was running monthly for 20 years. However, it is now only being organised as an annual event.
The last party was held in April 2018 with the next event due in Spring 2019 – one to bookmark.
Hosting parties for the under 40s, Fever prides itself on the two key components of any swinging event; debauchery and discretion.
You need to arrange membership in advance of attending any party and admission is for single females and couples only.
Events are held at a London bar or club and run from 9.00pm to 3.00am.
Gartside House, Harris Way, Sunbury-on-Thames TW16 7EL
Running events every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday plus Secret Sundays, the Hellfire Club is a popular swingers club in the west of London. They have nights for TV/TS and LGBT as well as couples and singles.
Most events attract more than the allocated quota of single males so early attendance and booking is recommended.
The club attracts a lot of European visitors as well as international guests from the U.S., Australia and Canada.
Running meets every Friday and Saturday plus the first Wednesday of every month, Le Boudoir is a members only swingers club for couples, singles and the LGBT community.
Evenings are run from 9.30pm to 3.00am and 8.00pm to midnight on Wednesdays.
Our Place 4 Fun
Running events every Friday and Saturday, Our Place 4 Fun is open to new guests, especially tourists to London. All that is required is pre-registration online.
Parties finish at 5.00am and there is easy access to the tubes (Leicester Square) or Kings Cross station. Of course, night buses run throughout the early morning.
They also run a Greedy Girl night on Tuesdays which is one of the best attended midweek swingers parties in London.
Check the website for details of special and themed events.
239-241 Kentish Town Rd, Kentish Town, London NW5 2JT
A naturist spa in north west London, Rio’s is open seven days and six nights a week to offer a decent selection of facilities.
As well as steam rooms, sauna cabins, jacuzzis and a plunge pool there is also an outdoor garden and two TV lounges.
There couples only night is held on Saturdays between 6pm and 3am (others can join in after midnight but a couples only area is provided).
Though not strictly speaking a swingers club it is popular with lifestyle members.
A queer inclusive members club, you need to be a registered member to attend their events – tickets are not sold on the door.
Parties are usually a dazzling occasion and the dress code is more dress to thrill than just impress. They are a welcoming club running several events throughout the year.
Other London Swingers Events/Parties
There are additional events being held in the Capital through a number of organisers, details of which can be found on the following websites:
- London Adult Party Club
- Rebecca Ryder’s London Sex Parties
- Lifestyle Gangbang Parties
- London Swingers Adult Parties
- Pleasure Island Parties
- Skirt Club (Girls Only)
Swinging in Birmingham and the West Midlands
In the heart of England, Birmingham and the West Midlands offers a good selection of swingers clubs.
10 William Clowes St, Stoke-on-Trent ST6 3AP
Voted the second-best swingers club in the UK and the top themed swingers nightclub in 2012, Atlantis is more of a dance than a social club. Arranged over two floors, the space is lit with DMX lighting and includes dance floor, dancing poles as well as more private snugs and rooms.
They run events every Friday and Saturday night from 9.00pm to 3.00am with a greedy girls party twice a month.
47A Picturedrome Way, Darlaston, WS10 8DQ
Chameleons has two clubs; one in Darlaston and one in Newport. The West Midlands site is situated in a commercial area with a discreet back entrance.
Membership costs are £25 for couples (lifetime membership), £10 for ladies and £80 for men. Admission fees are also charged each time you attend.
It’s a small club but it is open 363 days a year with admission times being as follows: Monday: 2.00pm to 1.00am
- Tuesday-Thursday: 11.00am to 1.00am
- Friday: 11.00am to 3.00am
- Saturday: Midday to 4.00am
- Sunday: 2.00pm to 1.00am
They also run several themed events including BBWs, Builders & Basques, Superheroes, 80s and Doctors and Nurses.
Cleveland St, Dudley DY1 1TZ
Organising swingers events for couples, singles, gay and bi, Klub Kink has 11 play areas for guests to enjoy. The facilities include a member’s lounge with full bar, spa/sauna with gloryholes and nine dungeons.
Less a swingers club but more a hedonists playzone, they are the longest running fetish club in the Midlands. Though they have changed locations over the years, they have now found a permanent home in the former Club Valhalla. They were once known as Topcat Dungeons.
Entry to the club is free for members but £5 for non-members with membership costing £30 a flat per year (couples, single men and women).
The Private Club
Aston, Birmingham B6 5TJ
The ‘UK’s Best Kept Secret’, the Private Club hosts five weekly events, some of which are filmed. Each night has a different theme including bukkake, gangbangs, anal and facials. There are two large main open play areas on different levels plus a few private play spaces.
The club is run as a members only venue and you will need to register with photo ID to get admittance. They also run a loyalty programme and if you attend four events in two months, you get free entry to a weekday event.
Party nights start as follows:
- Monday and Friday: Midday to 4.00pm
- Wednesday: Midday to 4.00pm and 8.00pm to Midnight
- Thursday: 8.00pm to Midnight
- Saturday: 8.00pm to 2.00am
33 Midland Rd, Walsall WS1 3QQ
Situated in an industrial area of Walsall, R3tro is a former residential property offering plenty of smaller rooms and communal spaces to play.
The club has a great dogging room space in which the front end of a car has been mounted in the room to lend an air of authenticity to outdoor fun…indoors! There are also gloryholes, a couples room, chill out space and smoking area.
New members are required to visit the club three times in three months to qualify for membership.
Event door fees vary depending on the day but range from £10 to £50 depending on who you are; single ladies always go free.
The club is open most Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Saturdays. See website for a full calendar of events and opening times.
140 High Street, West Bromwich, West Midlands, B70 6JJ
The UK’s longest running swingers club, XTasia has won several accolades for its party nights. Originally established in the 1980s, the club hosts several well-known and popular events including Cirque de Chaos, DPraved and Foam Parties.
Catering for swingers and fetishists, XTasia is two separate venues; the Flirts Bar and the club itself. Event nights take place in one of the venues with a mixture of fet and swing parties to mix things up. You can find full details of what’s on when via the website; however, the bar opens at 6.00pm and the club at 8.00pm.
Entrance is for members only and you can find registration forms online.
Swinging in Central England
You can find plenty of swingers clubs in the heart of England including house parties, purpose built clubs and commercially sized venues.
(Private Address in Dunstable)
Close to Junction 12 of the M1, Arousal is a private members only swingers club housed in a purpose built venue.
They have the usual array you would expect such as dungeon, swing, communal play room and private spaces plus a dance floor, cage, pole and cinema. They aren’t licensed to sell alcohol so you will need to bring your own.
They hold events every Saturday night, some of which are themed (Black Mans Fan Club, Kinky Tease Fetish, Arousal Party etc) and the 3rd Friday of every month.
Evenings start at around 10.00pm and usually go until 3.00am though some events run for longer.
The Greenhouse 23 Crawley Road, Luton, Bedfordshire LU1 1HX
An ‘Oasis of pleasure in a hectic word’, Bitastic is hosted at Luton’s gay sauna every Tuesday from 8.00pm to 2.00am.
Despite the name, you don’t have to be bisexual to join in the fun but they do limit the number of single men who attend their evenings so you will need to register in advance.
Little Staughton Rd, Colmworth, Bedford MK44 2LD
Located very close to the Radlett Parties hosts (see below), Jaydees is on the Beds/Cambs borders about 3 miles from the A1. It’s a purpose built venue over two floors in a discreet and quiet location covering 5,500 sq ft of space.
They have 8 private play rooms plus disco, dancefloor and pole as well as jacuzzi and sauna. Upstairs is couples only. Single gents are welcome to attend Saturday night events.
Admission is for members only though the cost for joining is just £10 for life.
Parties are usually on a Saturday between 8.30pm and 2.30am although there are parties on some Friday nights for greedy girls and other themed events.
Theobald Street, Radlett, WD7 7LT
A venue just as popular with experienced swingers as it is for newcomers, Radlett Parties run events on the fourth weekend of every month from 9.30pm.
The club is run for couples and single ladies only and is held in a £5 million private home with extensive luxury facilities including pool, dungeon and sauna.
There is no annual membership fees payable to join in but you are invited to contact the hosts before attending any events.
The Anchor Lodge Hotel, Great North Road, Tempsford SG19 2AS
Established in 2010, the Vanilla Alternative is a modern members only club run as a sort of ‘hotel’ on the A1 between St Neots and Letchworth Garden City.
Known as the VA, for short, the facilities are clean and stylish ad extend to include a modern spa as well as good sized playrooms. The boutique private rooms for guests are very well maintained and are of a very high standard.
Swinger events are run every Friday and Saturday night with entrance fees being £35/£45 for couples, £10/£15 for ladies and £40 for gents (Fridays only).
Evening parties run from 8.00pm to 2.00am with the occasional midweek event thrown in during the day.
Swinging in East Anglia
Known for its flat marshlands and fens, the swinging scene in East Anglia is anything but flat.
King’s Lynn PE33 0AT
Open to new members over the age of 21, The Annex runs serval different themed parties throughout the year including:
- Light BDSM social play
- BDSM play (with limits) – Voyeurs welcome
- TG/TS plus Admirers
- TGirl and Bisexual guys plus Admirers
- Greedy Girl
They have a full calendar on their website as dates are irregular and sometimes the venue is used for domination sessions or private hire.
Unit 10 Estcourt Rd, Yarmouth, Norfolk, NR30 4JQ
Running various munch meets, swing parties and themed evenings, Frank’s place is a private club dedicated to consensual play.
They have a lot of dungeon equipment and several play rooms.
Swinging in the East Midlands
The East Midlands has fewer venues than the West Midlands but swingers in the area are close to the nearby clubs in the North East, Central England and Birmingham.
281 Osmaston Road, Derby, DE23 8LD
Situated in an industrial area of Derby, The Attic is a small converted residential property with plenty of rooms for playtime. The club isn’t huge but its warren-like rooms make the space quite intimate, particularly on event nights when the place gets quite busy. They’ve recently had some new shower rooms installed as well as a redecoration in some rooms. The attic cinema room is a popular play space and is open during the day Tuesday to Thursday as well as Saturday.
Open for all, there are no membership fees at The Attic; however, they do operate standard rules and dress codes.
Find out more about their event and theme nights on the website.
Watling Street, Lutterworth LE17 4HU
Liberty Elite has been running since 1999 as an upmarket social swingers club running regular events in Leicestershire.
A clean and modern club, the space has a lot of equipment and facilities including open play room, spa, snug, lounge, dance floor and several private rooms. The décor is classic in style and features leather Chesterton sofas, four poster beds and subtle ambient lighting.
Guests must complete an application form prior to their first visit and bring photo ID along.
It’s a popular club that runs events every Friday and Saturday plus selected Sunday and midweek parties.
New Paradise Club
Hathern House, Rempstone Rd, Normanton on Soar, Sutton Bonington, Loughborough LE12 5EH
A private members club open only to the over 25s, the New Paradise Club is situated on a rural industrial estate about 5 miles outside of Loughborough.The venue has plenty of play spaces on offer as well as bar with a snooker table.
Events run regularly as follows:
- Wednesday: Club Nights – 7.00pm to midnight
- Thursday: Bi Night – 7.00pm to midnight
- Last Friday of the Month – Social Night – 7.00pm to 3.00am
- Sunday: Chill Outs – 2.00pm to 10.00pm
They also hold themed and special parties throughout the year as well as being open other nights so check the website for details.
Swinging in the North East
The North East can also hold its head up high when it comes to its swingers clubs and the region is well represented in the major cities like Hull, Leeds and Sheffield
8-10 High St, Stanley DH9 0DQ
Winning the accolade for the friendliest club in the UK (along with London’s ‘Our Place For Fun’), Club F has a great reputation for its welcoming atmosphere.
The venue has hotel rooms on site for guests to stay over as well as some excellent modern facilities including a spa, dungeon, bar and coffee shop plus social areas and, of course, play rooms.
Membership is £30 for the year and this includes discounted entry (first two visits each year are half price admission).
Events are held as follows:
- Wednesday: 8.0pm to midnight
- Thursday: 5.00pm to midnight (TBirds)
- Friday: 8.00pm to 1.30am (Singles and couples)
- Saturday: 8.00pm to 1.30am (couples only with pre-selected and invited single males)
- Sunday: Midday to 4.00pm (Men only sauna)
142 Witham, Hull HU9 1AS
Situated on the outskirts of Hull’s city centre, HU9 is a large two storey club with plenty of great facilities. The lounge and socialising area has a pool table and plenty of seating for mixing with other couples plus there are some great play spaces set up around the club.
Though they don’t have a license for alcohol, you can bring your own where it is stored at the bar.
Events vary throughout the calendar and some nights they have live music or entertainment including nights with guest porn stars.
They run events from Wednesday to Sunday, each night having its own theme:
- Wednesday: Midday to 9.00pm
- Thursday: 8.00pm to 1.00am
- Friday and Saturday: 9.00pm to 3.00am
- Sunday: 3.00pm to 10.00pm
It’s worth checking the website for details as some midweek events only run a few times each month.
548 Attercliffe Rd, Sheffield S9 3QP
A former pub, La Chambre offers plenty of space for group and private play in the centre of Sheffield.
The rooms are spacious and the facilities include a dungeon, sauna and small pool.
Opening times are as follows:
- Wednesday: 7:30pm – 12am
- Friday: 9:30pm – 2am
- Saturday: 9:30pm – 3am
- Bisexual nights: 8:30pm – 1am
- Fetish nights: 8:30pm – 1am
Unit 2, Ledgard Way, Armley, Leeds, LS12 2ND.
Holding a fully licensed bar, Pandora’s is a members only swingers club in semi-industrial area of Leeds.
They have some of the best facilities in the area and includes a commercial sized jacuzzi, sauna and swimming pool making it more like a spa than a house party.
In addition, they have 16 play rooms each with different facilities including:
- Glow in the dark UV room
- Sex swing
- Vaping room
- Cinema room
- Suspension bed with cage
- Bondage wall
- A fondle tunnel
- Open group play bed
- Glass floored bedroom
- Round bed
There is also an orgy room and private party space.
The club is open as follows:
- Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday: 8.00pm to 1.00am
- Friday and Saturday: 8.00pm to 2.00am
73A Low Rd, Leeds LS10 1RH
The original club for liberated adults in Leeds, Quest runs plenty of parties for different types of swingers including fetishists, TV/TS and bisexuals.
The club is situated in an industrial area down a private road beside Kwik Fit. There is private parking which is monitored by CCTV owned by the club.
It’s a private, members only club and you will need to contact the hosts before attending any events. Members of the armed forces get a £5 discount on their joining fee.
They are open every day except Monday although the 1st and 3rd Saturday of every month is a couples and single ladies only night.
Swinging in the North West
The North West has the vast majority of England’s swingers clubs and whether that says something about the region or not we can only be grateful there is so much choice. There are three swingers clubs in Manchester itself and the surrounding towns have almost another dozen good venues to choose from.
Adam & Eve’s
206 Liverpool Rd, Eccles, Manchester M30 0PF
Adam & Eve’s is one of the three main swingers clubs in Manchester and has been open since 1982. They have reputation for being a mixed club with a good range of ages and backgrounds. They are a relaxed group and the atmosphere at Adam & Eve’s is warm and welcoming.
There are no limits on the number of single guys and they are welcome at any time.
See the website for full details of events, prices and facilities.
The club is open daily as follows:
- Monday to Thursday: 11.00am to Midnight
- Friday: 11.00am to 3.00am
- Saturday: Midday to 3.00am
- Sunday: Midday to Midnight
25 Park Street, Manchester, M3 1EU
Opened in 2014, Amour is an upmarket swingers club in the city and is one of the most popular venues for both locals and visitors to Manchester.
The club attracts a younger crowd with more of a club vibe than a house party atmosphere and they have live DJs as well as foam parties to keep the crowd happy.
It’s a modern and clean establishment with exceptionally helpful and friendly staff. Reviews overall are excellent.
Cheshire Adult Parties (C.A.P.)
Two venues in Blackpool (Nightclub on Springfield Road & Swingers Club on Charles Street)
With the use of two separate facilities, the Cheshire Adult Parties held in Blackpool are varied as well as vibrant. Both have a good range of play areas that are set up though the nightclub has a fully licensed bar whereas the social club doesn’t.
Events are usually held on Saturdays though not every week (see website for details) and entry is charged as follows:
- Single guys: £25
- Single ladies: Free
- Couples: £15
- TV/TS: £10
235 Aqueduct St, Preston PR1 7JN
Preston’s ‘Premier Swingers Club’, Entice is based just outside the city centre and is a members only venue. Clean and relatively spacious, the club is basic but offers a warm welcome to all its guests.
It has a fully licensed bar, full size dance floor as well as a resident DJ.
The club is open as follows:
- Thursday: 8.00pm to Midnight (Mixed Night)
- Friday Afternoons: Midday to 8.00pm (Everyone welcome)
- Friday Evenings: 8.00pm to 2.00am (1st and 3rd Fridays are couples and single ladies only)
- Saturday: 8.00pm to 3.00am (Mixed Night)
- Sunday: 7.00pm to Midnight (Mixed Night)
Back Ribble Road, Blackpool, FY1 4AB
Club SX is a popular swingers club in the North West and attracts a younger crowd with its mix of live entertainment. Events include Drag Acts, Burlesque Shows, Pole Dancing and stripping. The club is modern, clean and spacious offering plenty of play areas, wet rooms and a fully licensed bar.
Offering free membership to all over the age of 21, the club is open to all including kinksters, fetishists and the LGBT community.
The club can get quite busy, particularly during tourist season when there is an increase in memberships but you are guaranteed a hot night out at Club SX. In total, they are open 300 days a year and have plenty of fresh events so check out their website for full details.
Members who pay for the evening can also get free entry during the day time.
Cupids Swingers Club
Sutherland Street, Swinton, Manchester, M27 6AT
Another busy Manchester swingers club, Cupid’s is open seven days a week and offers regular themed parties as well as members nights. Only Wednesdays are couples and single females only.
The club has a mixed membership base and every night seems to attract a different crowd though there are plenty of friendly regulars to welcome newcomers.
It’s a stylish and elegant club with modern facilities and clean play rooms however they do not have a license to sell alcohol. The classic ‘BYOB’ is applicable here.
Opening times are available from the website.
122 Durham Street, Rochdale, Lancashire, OL11 1LS
Formerly known as the ‘Decadence Society’, this popular swingers club in Rochdale has a great regular following. Located in a quiet industrial area of the town, the unassuming exterior of the club belies the modern and clean interior. With bright décor and an elegant bar (fully licensed) and lounge, the club has plenty of sparkle.
There are several good-sized play rooms as well as an equipped dungeon space, jacuzzi and two double shower.
Admission fees are generally £10 for couples, £20 for single men and free for single ladies. TVs/TSs pay just £5 entry.
Club opening times are as follows:
- Monday: 3.00pm to Midnight
- Tuesday to Thursday: 8.00pm to Midnight
- Friday & Saturday: 8.00pm to 2.00am
- Sunday: 3.00pm to 10.00pm
Cawdor St, Farnworth, Bolton BL4 7LX
Occupying a building on a partially residential and partially industrial part of Bolton, this club is more modern on the inside than you would give it credit form from the outside.
The Gatehouse has plenty of facilities including an orgy room, cinema room, gloryholes, BDSM room and UV room.
Open seven days a week, The Gatehouse does not have a membership policy and all guests are welcome. Every evening has a different theme with opening hours and admission prices as follows:
- Mondays (Greedy Girls): 11.00am to 4.00pm – £15 per person
- Tuesdays (Men Only): 10.00am to 10.00pm – £10 per person
- Wednesday (All Welcome/T Girls): Midday to Midnight – – £10 per person
- Thursdays (Dominatrix): Midday to 6.00pm – £10 per person
- Friday Day (Glam & Glitz/Greedy Girls): 11.00am to 6.00pm – £10 per person
- Friday Evening (varies but BDSM on 1st Friday): 6.00pm to Midnight – £10 per person
- Saturdays (All welcome): Midday to 2.00am – £10 per person
- Sundays (All welcome): 2.00pm to Midnight – £10 per person
22 General St, Blackpool FY1 1SG
Established in 2005, Infusion is the largest purpose built swingers club in the north west. They have a 30’ swimming pool, spa and sauna as well as themed playrooms, loveswing, dungeon, gloryholes and dark room.
They hold a mix of events including some in the daytime and some in the evening. Opening hours are as follows:
- Wednesday, Thursday & Sunday: 11.00am till 1.00am
- Friday & Saturday: 11.00am to 3.00am (8pm onwards is couples and single ladies only)
1 Penn St, Rochdale OL16 1HX
A BYOB swingers club, New Liaisons is situated in the centre of Rochdale and welcomes guests six days a week (closed on Mondays).
The admission fees are charged at £20 for guys, £10 for couples and single ladies enter for free. There are no membership fees.
No 3 Club
3 Friday Street, Chorley, Lancashire, PR6 0AA
You’d be forgiven for thinking you’d walked into a Wetherspoons when you enter the No 3 Club in Chorley. The bar area is very reminiscent of a high street chain pub but is modern and well equipped with comfy surroundings; just no fruit machines!
A fully licensed bar, the facilities extend to intimate play rooms as well as communal spaces.
Times and admission fees vary and single males require membership as well as pre-booking.
7 Crystal Rd, Blackpool FY1 6BS
A dedicated hotel for lifestyle seekers in the heart of Blackpool, Paradise has been open for over a decade. They provide accommodation for up to 16 couples in their ‘horny hotel’. Though rooms are private, parties are arranged for guests (twosomes, threesomes, foursomes and moresomes) on request.
Contact the owners for details of any events or to organise your own saucy rendezvous in Blackpool
Whitelegge St, Bury BL8 1SW
Voted for the 3rd time in 2017 as the number one swingers club in the north west, Partners is situated in a quiet suburb of the town of Bury.
They are open during the day as well as the evening with opening times being as follows:
- Monday to Friday: 11.00am to 5.00pm
- 1st Sunday: 1.00pm to 8.00pm
- 1st Friday: 8.00pm to 3.00am
- 3rd Wednesday: 8.00pm 1.00am
- 2nd Sunday: 1.00pm to 7.00pm
There are also several special events and themed parties running each month; check the website for details.
9 Union St, Birkenhead CH42 3TL
Established in 2005 and spread over four floors, the Townhouse has recently been refurbished with the remaining portion of the venue being remodelled during 2018.
The venue offers a luxurious setting for its saucy parties including a beautifully sleek and fully licensed bar, an entertainment lounge, group and private play areas.
The club has a hugely varied membership including plenty of people from the LGBT and fet scene.
Townhouse is open Tuesday to Sunday with a variety of different events taking place during the month.
Swinging in South East England
The south of England has quite a few options for Swingers, particularly around Kent.
Hartlip, nr Sittingbourne, Kent
Kinky England hosts a swinging night every Saturday where couples only are welcome to enjoy the facilities on offer. The secluded and private setting includes outdoor as well as indoor spaces.
A friendly atmosphere awaits you and there are intimate spaces for play as well as spa area with indoor heated pool, jacuzzi and sauna.
Entrance is charged at £16 per couple and the doors open at 8.00pm, closing at 1.30am. Guests must make prearrangements before attendance.
(Various Locations in Hove, Maidstone, Portsmouth, Bournemouth and Brighton)
Using the facilities on offer from seven different venues across the south east, Liberation run around eight events each month.
Events are a great way to network with other lifestyle followers and are an even better excuse to go on tour around the south coast to try out the tastes of neighbouring towns.
The current schedule of events is available to view on their website.
London Rd, Lexden, Colchester CO3 4DF
A private members only club in Colchester, Mingles is open for over 25s only. The venue is bright, clean and modern with several air-conditioned play areas to enjoy as well as a social lounge and bar area. They do not have license to sell alcohol so you do need to bring your own.
Members are a mixture of ages and from a variety of backgrounds as well as experiences.
You do need to book in advance, particularly single guys as numbers are limited.
Mingles is open every Saturday from 8.00pm to 2.00am.
Paradise Health Spa
172 Windham Rd, Bournemouth BH1 4RA
Though advertising itself as a naturist health spa, Paradise is also a well-attended swingers club in the Bournemouth area.
The venue is right in the heart of a residential area and is less than discreet when it comes to private entrances and signage; the screened windows of the ‘Health Spa’ kind may make it less than obvious what you are doing there. However, once you are inside, the true nature of the club is revealed and there is no hiding the St Andrews Cross, sex swings and rubber sheets!
It’s not the largest of clubs you will ever visit but it does make for an intimate evening.
Events are most days of the week though it is worth checking the website for updates.
Various locations in South East
More of a network of other members who open their homes to other members, The Playgrounds is a useful way to meet up with other couples for a traditional house party swinging event.
Interested parties should contact the organisers who will guide you through the process of how to attend one of their events.
Pleasures in Kent
326 Red Hill, Wateringbury, Maidstone ME18 5LD
Held in a private residence in a rural and quiet location, Pleasures in Kent is a popular swingers club.
The house has an indoor/outdoor heated pool and jacuzzi as well as some sizeable group and private play areas. It’s a stunning house with beautiful grounds that guests can enjoy and the owners are very welcoming of newcomers.
Events are held every Friday and Saturday night with midweek events held on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month; usually a ladies day.
A contribution charge of £30 per couple, £40 for single men (Fridays only) and £0-15 for single ladies is payable for each event.
Opening hours are as follows:
- Friday and Saturday: From 8.00pm
- Wednesday: From 10.00am
Swinging in South West England
The South West of England, covering Cornwall, Devon, Somerset, Wiltshire and Worcestershire, has a lot of venues catering for swingers as well as TV/TS, bisexuals and fet fans alike.
Avonside Enterprise Park, Old Broughton Rd, Melksham SN12 8BX
Situated in a semi-commercial area of Melksham, Angels was purpose built to cater for swinger events. There is a large and open orgy room, dark room, voyeurs room and other play zones including a dungeon.
Events are run most Friday and Saturday nights as well as Wednesdays with general opening times being as follows:
- Wednesday: (check for details)
- Friday: 9.30pm to 3.30am
- Saturday: 8.30pm to 3.30am
Dare to Swing
1 Alfred St, Bristol BS2 0RF
One of two main clubs in Bristol, Dare to Swing is a private members swingers club not far from the Temple Meads railways station.
Hosted in a an old prohibition bar in a former Victorian pub, the venue can cater for up to 200 people. Facilities include a basement dungeon, 10 different playrooms plus a rooftop solarium and hot tub.
New members must have verified meets from other Fetlife or Fabswingers venues in order to gain membership or newcomers to the lifestyle can arrange a guest passport with the host.
Burnham on Sea, Somerset
The Decadent Nights venue is large and secluded with plenty of play spaces including a fetish room, group play area for up to 20 people and a huge socialising lounge. The log fire place in the inglenook provides plenty of heat and helps create an intimate atmosphere. Outside there is a heated swimming pool and a smokers area plus extensive grounds and private parking.
The club hosts regular couples nights as well as events that single men can attend; contact the owners for details of upcoming parties.
(Private Address in Yeovil, Somerset)
Don’t be fooled by the name, this is not a caravan swingers club but a former campsite in a rural part of Somerset. Originally purchased by the current owners as a derelict cottage, the property has been restored to offer a party premises for swingers.
There is space on site for caravans and campers so you can provide your own overnight accommodation if you like.
Regular meetings are held on Wednesdays and Saturdays plus selected bank holidays and special dates.
- Wednesdays: 2.00pm to 11.00pm (Couples £20, Men £25, Women Free)
- Saturdays: 8.00pm to 3.00am (Couples £25, Men £30, Women Free)
Deep Pit Road, Bristol, BS5 7UZ
Opened in 2003, The Office is the second of Bristol’s swingers clubs and is situated on the 4th floor of an office block in a commercial part of the city. It is the largest club in the South West and is a modern space for modern swingers.
- A ‘Screw with a View’ room offering panoramic views over Bristol
- Cinema Lounge
- Dungeon with Slings
- Covered smoking area
- Dance Floor with pole
- Glory Hole
- Couples only room
- Raised glass bed with passageway underneath
Opening times are as follows:
- Fridays: 9.00pm to 3.00am
- Saturdays: 9.00pm to 4.00am
135 High St, Weston-super-Mare BS23 1HN
A small but friendly swingers club in Weston Super Mare, Route 69 is a popular locals club that is a great place for newcomers to start out.
They have a fully licensed bar, chill out lounge and three play areas.
Opening hours are:
- Wednesdays – 2pm – 11pm
- Fridays – 8pm – 2am
- Saturdays – 8pm – 2am
- Sundays – 2pm – 10pm
(Private Address in Totnes, Devon)
Secrets is a couples only swingers club in Totnes and held in a private residence. The house has several open as well as private play areas plus an outdoor heated swimming pool, 10 seater sauna, 6 seat hot tub and a massage area. The outdoor space is decked and provides a heated and covered area for smokers.
There is a fully licensed bar on site and a buffet is served on party nights.
Parties are held on the 3rd Saturday of each month and start at 8.00pm, finishing at 5.00am. Guests may sleep over for free though the entranced cost is £50 per couple.
Swindon Swingers Club
Touch Sauna, Henry Street, Swindon, SN1 1RQ
The Touch Sauna is home to a monthly swingers meet in Swindon that attracts around 100 people each event.
Single male or females are charged entrance at £20 each though couples get in for £30. No pre-booking required.
The evenings start at 9.30pm with last entry at 11.00pm though the parties don’t finish until around 2.00am.
There are also male only events on Wednesdays between midday and 9.00pm which are designed for T-Girls and their admirers.
Rock Road, Torquay, TQ2 5SP
Covering four floors of hedonistic space, the Swingers Quay is a popular lifestyle club in Torquay. The club is housed in a charming 200-year old former brewery yet has modern facilities for guests to enjoy which include a steam room, spa and play rooms.
Entrance fees are charged as follows:
- Couples – £28
- Single males – £35
- Single females – £10
The club is open every Saturday from 8.00pm to 2.00am
An annual weekend festival for swingers held in Worcestershire. Check website for details and save the date.
Swinging in Wales
24 Church Street, Newport, Gwent
The sister club to a swingers club in Darlaston (see West Midlands), Chameleons is a small club situated in Newport; membership at one transfers to the other. Entrance is for couples and single females only.
Club nights are held on Fridays from 8.00pm to 3.30am; note some nights are themed.
Swinging in Scotland
After Eight Club
10 Spittal St, Edinburgh EH3 9DX
Home of Edinburgh’s only fixed location swingers club, After Eight is a private club with membership starting from £5 (single female), £20 (couples) and £25 (single male).
They have six separate play rooms including a dungeon as well as bath/shower facilities.
They host regular theme nights and are open on Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights.
Cj’s at The Townhouse
Nithsdale Rd, Glasgow G41 2AN
Events at CJ’s are varied and take place most Saturdays as well as the occasional weekday each month. There is a smoking area, two lounges and seven play rooms including a dungeon and a couples/fems only space.
New members are always welcome but you need to register an interest in advance (photo ID required).
Useful Contacts: National Swingers
Most swingers in the UK will be registered with one of the main lifestyle groups, including Fetlife, UK Swingers and Fab Swingers. If there aren’t any clubs in your areas then the chances are that there will be national parties held close to you using one of the following sites. Alternatively, you can use the groups to hook up with like-minded couples (and singles) for more intimate meetings. Adult Friend Finder, Red Hot Pie, The Adult Hub and Swinging Heaven are also good places to find people involved in the lifestyle.
- Real Deal Parties
- Ab Fab Encounters
- Black Lush Naughty Parties
- Liberation Parties
- A1 Caravan Swingers
- Killing Kittens
- Eureka Parties
- Black Man’s Fan Club
Featured image via Adam & Eve’s, Manchester.