Sex in Birmingham Guide

Want to know more about sex in Birmingham?

Centrally located in the heart of England, the city, known as Brum, is a culturally diverse place offering a great mix of entertainment. Split into many outlying districts and the main city, there are hundreds of bars, clubs and restaurants as well as strip clubs, erotic massage parlours and swinging clubs.

In this guide to the Birmingham Sex Scene, we take a look at some of the best adult entertainment venues in Birmingham, as well as what adult services you can (and cannot) find legally.

Is Prostitution Legal in Birmingham?

As the UK’s second largest city by population and home to 1.1 million people, Birmingham has a reasonably busy sex industry (just like most of the UK!).

As well as escorts and street prostitutes, sex services are available at erotic massage parlours.

It is estimated that there are around 3000 to 5000 prostitutes working in the Birmingham area with the average charge for full sex being £20 to £30, full sex from a street prostitute and £80 to £120 from an escort.

Prostitution in the UK is legal in the sense that it is not against the law to pay for sex nor to see sex; however, most activities surrounding the sex trade are against the law, including:

  • Running or managing a brothel.
  • Soliciting
  • Kerb crawling
  • Advertising for sex in a public space
  • Pimping
  • Pandering

It is also illegal for johns to pay for sex with anyone under the age of 18 or someone they know to have been coerced into sex.

In recent years, the West Midlands Police Authority has been clamping down on street prostitution by targeting kerb crawlers. Repeat offenders who receive more than three cautions are taken to court where they face receiving an Engagement Support Order.


The Birmingham Escorts Scene

Most prostitutes in Birmingham offer sex through an escort service.

Some work as independent call girls whilst others work for agencies.

The benefits of working as an escort over street prostitution are obvious; clients can be vetted and checked using mobile contact details before arranging a meeting, no wasted time on the streets plus it is safer for the girls and appointments can be fitted around other social and professional activities.

The cost of advertising and registering with an online directory or agency are relatively low and it is the preferred choice for most working girls.

Birmingham has a huge number of ways to book an escort. When booking an escort that hasn’t been verified, you are advised to make your own arrangements to authenticate her profile.

Bait and switch scams aren’t common but they do happen so it is as well to ask for up-to-date photographs sent to your mobile. Ask for the escort to hold a piece of paper with your chosen word written on it. This should ensure you are communicating with the person from the profile you have selected online.

Due to UK advertising regulations, we cannot list active Birmingham escort agencies (or independent escorts) on this page.

Sex in Birmingham: What Adult Services Are Popular?

Birmingham Brothels

Brothels aren’t legal in the UK and you can’t find any that advertise services of this nature. It is said that you can get full sex in some of the erotic massage parlours around the city.

However, this too is against the law.

Birmingham Swinging Clubs

Looking for the best swinging in Birmingham?

There are a few clubs of note:

The Private Club

30A Wainwright St, Aston, Birmingham B6 5TJ

The Private Club is a popular swinging venue in the Aston area. They run several events each week, each being a gangbang sex party with a theme. The filmed events are well attended for those looking to play the role of porn star but you can also catch bukkake, anal and watersports nights.

The venue has recently been refurbished and features two large play areas as well as private and intimate rooms.

The Private Club swinging for sex in birmingham
The club runs a variety of different events, each with a different theme. Image via website.

Fees vary by event but are generally £20-£30 for couples, single men £65-£75 and single women are free. Members get a discount on all entry fees with annual membership being free for couples and single females; guys pay £50 a year.

Event times are as follows:

  • Monday: 12.00pm to 4.00pm
  • Wednesday and Friday: 12.00am to 4.00pm and 8.00pm to midnight
  • Saturday: 8.00pm to 2.00am

Chameleons Club

47A Picturedrome Way, Darlaston, WS10 8DQ

Situated about 10 miles to the north west of the city in the Wednesbury area, Chameleons has recently been refurbished.

The club features a modern setting with dark and intimate nooks and private spaces including a sex swing, mirrored room and jacuzzi. There is a nice social lounge with fireplace and a large bar.

Chameleons is members only with annual costs being charged at £80 (single men), £10 (single ladies) and £25 (couples). Entrance fees are payable on top of membership

The club is open as follows:

  • Monday: 2.00pm to 1.00am – Bi-sexual night – TVs welcome
  • Tuesday: 11.00am to 1.00am – Nude night – Couples, single males and single females
  • Wednesday & Thursday: 11.00am to 1.00am – Couples, single males and single females
  • Friday: 11.00am to 3.00am – Couples, single males and single females
  • Saturday: Midday to 4.00am – Couples and single females after 7.30pm only
  • Sunday: 2.00pm to 1.00am – Couples, single males and single females

R3tro Club

33 Midland Rd, Walsall WS1 3QQ

Specialising in their ‘Greedy Girls’ parties, R3Tro is based just 8 miles outside of the city centre in the Walsall area. Under new management and benefitting from a recent refurbishment, the club boasts the following facilities:

  • Sauna
  • Communal play areas with St Andrew’s Cross
  • Private rooms
  • Dogging area
  • Chill out room with sofas
  • Double showers
  • Video areas
  • Refreshment bar
retro swinging club birmingham
The venue is set at the end of a quiet residential road with no adjoining properties.

Annual membership costs are £40 for single men but free for couples and single ladies. You can join on the door as long as you bring along proof of ID (one photo and one showing your current address).

Event door fees are charged as follows:

DayTimesSingle MenSingle LadiesCouplesNon Members
Monday12pm to 4pm£40Free£20£55
Tuesday2pm to 11pm£40Free£20£55
Wednesday12pm to 12am£40Free£20£55
Saturday8pm to 2am£50Free£20£65

Featured events are run on other days and include bukkake, fetish and gangbang parties.


140 High St, West Bromwich B70 6JJ

One of the UKs longest running swinging clubs, Xtasia was first opened in the 1980s. It is located about 5 miles to the west of the city in the West Bromwich area. The area is mainly set to retail premises that are closed of an evening.

Comprising two interconnected venues, the club features a fetish dungeon (Purgatory) and a nightclub.

Annual club membership is available for £10 (couples and single females) or £30 (single males) with fetish membership being free (limited entry to fetish parties).

The club runs regular themed events including foam parties, FFFF and Cirque de Chaos.

DayTimesSingle MenSingle LadiesCouples
Wednesday6pm to midnightn/aFreeFree
Thursday6pm to midnight£10FreeFree
Friday6pm to 3am£30Free£15
Saturday6pm to 3am£30£10£25

Some events are run on a Sunday including workshops and fetish events may vary; check the website for event dates and full details.

See more: Britain’s best swinger sites for finding a meet-up.

Birmingham Erotic Massage Parlours

Most erotic massage is performed outcall by escorts but many also provide in-call services too. However, there are a couple of parlours we found searching online that are said to provide erotic services.

Legally, we cannot list them on this site, but they are easy to find online.

Strip Clubs in Birmingham

Birmingham has a wide selection of strip clubs, some offering more of a traditional approach to gentleman’s clubs and others being more like bars.

Drinks prices are higher than in other city bars and the costs of lapdances can add up even though admission fees can be low. It’s always recommended to keep your head in these kind of venues as too much to drink can hit your wallet hard.

Girls who work in strip clubs are skilled at tempting men to part with their cash…you have been warned.

Medusa Lodge

139-147 Hurst St, Birmingham B5 6SD

A Burlesque nightclub in the heart of Chinatown, the Medusa Lodge is a new location for this long standing Birmingham strip club.

The new home is modern and stylish and has clearly come at a high cost as the finish is of a great quality. This investment is reflected in the prices and the drinks and dances can rack up.

medusa lodge strip club birmingham
The new home for Medusa is modern and stylish with comfortable seating . Image via website.

Choreographed stage shows are run six nights a week and you can receive private entertainment in the VIP rooms for an additional charge.

The club is open Monday to Saturday from 9.00pm to 6.00am. Midweek and early evenings can be a little empty which affects the atmosphere.

Legs 11

30 Ladywell Walk, Birmingham B5 4ST

193-194 Broad Street, Birmingham, B15 1AY

Running two venues in the city, Legs 11 is perhaps the most famous strip club in Birmingham. The original venue was opened in 1996 and has attracted some big names over the years.

The Broad Street venue is the place to be and a big Lounge, two VIP rooms, and a private bar. Full waitress service is provided so you can remain comfortable whilst enjoying the entertainment. It’s well styled around a modern Art-Deco theme with comfortable leather and suede seating with rich crimson, sultry grey and ornate gold. The central stage with a dancing pole offers an intimate view of the performers.

Opening hours as follows:

DayBroad StreetChinatown
Sunday to Thursday9.00pm to 7.00am8.00pm to 7.00am
Friday & Saturday8.00pm to 7.00am7.00pm to 7.00am


303 High St, West Bromwich B70 8ND

Angels is a luxuriously appointed gentleman’s club with a stylish and modern interior. The main floor is features a small stage with dancing pole around which comfortable seating is provided. You can even watch from the plush and well-stocked bar or from the mezzanine VIP area.

angels strip club birmingham
Angels is a premium strip club with a high quality interior to match its premium performers. Image via website.

The club is located in West Bromwich which is about 7 miles to the west of the city of Birmingham.

Dance prices start at £20 with VIP dances in the Champagne Room costing £60 for 15 minutes.

The club is open as follows:

  • Sunday to Thursday: 8.30pm to 3.00am
  • Friday and Saturday: 8.30pm to 4.00am


34 Horse Fair, Birmingham B1 1DA

Centrally located in the centre of Birmingham, close to the O2 Academy and the Birmingham Hippodrome, Scarlets offers topless and fully nude dancing.

Styled on an old-fashioned gentleman’s club, the venue has VIP rooms, spacious booths and a central staging area.

With its convenient position, it can get busy particularly if there are stag parties in.

The club is open Thursday to Saturday from 10.00pm to 6.00am.


93 King St, Dudley DY2 8NZ

In the heart of the Black Country, Demons is situated in Dudley, just 9 miles west of Birmingham. A gentleman’s club providing lapdances and stage shows, the venue is popular for stag events as well as with locals.

The club runs regular promotions such as, buy 2 fully nude dances and get the 3rd free and midweek champagne specials.

Demons is open Tuesday to Sunday from 8.30am until late.

Spearmint Rhino

64 Hagley Rd, Birmingham B16 8PF

One of five Spearmint Rhino venues in the UK, this international brand has a reputation for providing a premium strip club experience.

The Birmingham club is located close to the Broadway Casino and shares a lot of stag weekend traffic with this venue. A few minutes walk from the Five Ways station, it is well-located for public transport.

birmingham spearmint rhino strip club
The Spearmint Rhino club is on a main commuter road but is set back a little. Image via Google Earth.

They run regular events, parties and promotions; details of which you can find on their website.

Entry fees are £10 but you can download a voucher from their website which gives you free admission.

The club is open seven days a week from 9.00pm to 5.00am.

Are There Street Prostitutes in Birmingham?

Yes, but not as many as there used to be.

Street prostitution in the UK is illegal and the prevalence of street hookers has been on the decline in Birmingham for the last few decades.

Most prostitutes now use the internet to advertise their services and operate from their own premises or provide outcall visits. Women working on the streets generally charge around £20-£30 for full sex with reports of oral being procured for under £10.

There is no red-light district in Birmingham but there are a couple of areas which have become notorious for prostitution.

Soliciting is illegal, and we don’t want to encourage it, so our best advice is simple: avoid them.

Local Sex Shops

Birmingham doesn’t have as many sex shops as London with many of the smaller retail units having closed down over the last decade due to the internet.

You can still find several shops in the city as well as in some surrounding areas such as Tamworth or Wolverhampton.

Here, you will find a good range of bedroom basics including toys, health essentials, clothing and a smattering of the best British porn. None of these are niche shops but should give you a way to look and feel products before you buy them.

Of course, if you are after something specific, you can find products online but you may have to wait for delivery. Here is a guide on the UK’s best online sex shops.

  • Angels of Tamworth, 9, Roman Park, Claymore, Tamworth B77 5DQ
  • Private Shop, 45-46 Pinfold St, Birmingham B2 4AY
  • Pulse & Cocktails, 23A Church Ln, Wolverhampton WV2 4BT
  • Clonezone, 84 Hurst St, Birmingham B5 4TD
  • Ann Summers, Bullring, Birmingham B5 4BA
  • The Book Exchange, 91 Oxford St, Birmingham B5 6DY
  • Adult World, 1 Hinckley St, Birmingham B5 4EB
  • Angels & Sinners, 5 Frederick St, Walsall WS2 9NE